Confidence.

Have you ever had a friend who is average but still claim that they are very fat?
It's okay to say it once in a while when you have fats around your body, but it's annoying to repeat it again and again.
This is reality, we're not living in a barbie world where everyone is slender and has flat stomach, love your body, it is a gift given by God.

People this generation has a misconception that if a girl's BMI is normal, then they're considered fat.
Girls are very conscious about their weight when someone starts calling them fat and then they would go on diet, stop eating all the delicious food and make themselves suffer.
Screw it.
You live only once, that's the motto, eat while you can, enjoy what you're eating, we're a lot luckier than people who couldn't even have 3 proper meals.
When did the simple act of eating turns out to be so complicated?


The thing is, even if you really are fat and people are giving you nicknames such as calling you fat, all you can do is just to ignore them, or better still, say thank you politely.
Snap, exactly, isn't it absurd when someone's criticizing you and still you're saying thank you? Go freak them out by showing them how freaking confidence you can be, emit the kind of confident aura that no one could handle.
the moment when you take what others says too seriously, there will be a lack of confidence in you yourself and that is when you have low self-esteem which would affect you for the rest of your life if you never step out of it.

To succeed in life, you need two things: ignorance and confidence.
—Mark Twain

To have confidence in ourselves is very important, we care too much about how people value us, but what really matters is how we see ourselves.
The moment we store in too much negative comments about ourselves, we would start to doubt our own capabilities and we would lock ourselves in a box.
We could never give out our best if we have no idea what we're capable of, so don't let others words bring us down.

If you doubt yourself, then indeed you stand on shaky ground.
—Henrik Ibsen 

Confidence can get you where you want to go, and getting there is a daily process. It’s so much easier when you feel good about yourself, your abilities and talents.
—Donald Trump

Having self-confidence actually bring up a good conversation.
Everyone like talking to someone who's joyful and full of enthusiasm because that lightens up the atmosphere, no one likes to talk to someone who's depressing.

Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.
—Vince Lombardi

Confidence contributes more to conversation than wit.
—Francois de La Rochefoucauld

It is only when we feel good about ourselves and has a very strong heart that we could be a confident person.
You're the most you when you're confident because that's when you show your true self.
Stop trying to be as sexy as Megan Fox, as skinny as the models that appear on the fashion magazine.
Be the real you, don't live under others' shadow because you are unique in your own way.
This is a quote from the movie sleepover "If you are one who likes eating brownies instead of vegetable, then date a guy who likes brownies."
Don't go for someone who eats vegetable, wait until the right guy who likes eating brownies to come along.

Peace,

LimSyau